tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13259631.post111814337221317733..comments2023-12-07T03:01:28.197-06:00Comments on Tangled Weblog: Parts is parts.JMGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15163521274652768781noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13259631.post-1118358773188769932005-06-09T18:12:00.000-05:002005-06-09T18:12:00.000-05:00Sorry, this is late, but I have been away from my ...Sorry, this is late, but I have been away from my computer for a few days--and I have been thinking about some of these same thoughts.<BR/><BR/>I think attitude is so important here. One woman can wear a tank top and not draw much attention to herself--another includes the 'tude and she does.<BR/><BR/>I usually don't take up for men, but this is one place I think I will--they are very visual--and even though I generally don't struggle with tank tops and shorts--women can wear things that just really can make it difficult for him to keep his thoughts where they should be!!<BR/><BR/>GREAT blog!!!<BR/><BR/>JBjettybettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04351615360394477260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13259631.post-1118335321341986312005-06-09T11:42:00.000-05:002005-06-09T11:42:00.000-05:00I found a neat site recently that has some example...I found a neat site recently that has some examples of "rules of modesty" and makes it fun. I also like how they want the principles to be stressed, not the rules. <BR/><BR/>http://www.purefreedom.org/blog/archives/000015.htmlClarissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16660431155474738605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13259631.post-1118242481233041472005-06-08T09:54:00.000-05:002005-06-08T09:54:00.000-05:00Hey, I'm likin' your blog.Yes, women should mainta...Hey, I'm likin' your blog.<BR/><BR/>Yes, women should maintain a sense of modesty. I'm not sure how you define this. But men have a responsibility as well, to curb their lust if need be. Here's the thing...who knows what turns someone on? What if I have a gay friend who is attracted to my husband, no matter what he's wearing? Do we just cut off the relationship completely so said friend won't potentially lust after my husband?<BR/><BR/>We can't start making rules about what's appropriate and for whom and so on. It's an individual decision for each of us. Only God knows our true hearts. So let's forget laying down specific rules and start working on ourSELVES.Janahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12440130347585324534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13259631.post-1118180339398276732005-06-07T16:38:00.000-05:002005-06-07T16:38:00.000-05:00I'm with y'all. I do think that women need to exer...I'm with y'all. I do think that women need to exercise a little modesty, not go around flaunting their body parts for all to see. I think we Christian women need to be aware and not dress so that we call attention to our sexuality. However, as Tony said, men are responsible for their own actions, and thoughts, I might add.<BR/><BR/>I too had the image of an Islamic woman in her full body coverings, and I just have to say, it gets too darn hot and humid in Middle Tennessee for that nonsense.JMGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15163521274652768781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13259631.post-1118178883703762192005-06-07T16:14:00.000-05:002005-06-07T16:14:00.000-05:00I enjoyed your post. This is a very interesting t...I enjoyed your post. This is a very interesting topic. I also agree about covering breasts and not wearing low rise jeans with thongs. Very tacky.<BR/><BR/>But...as a female living in the great state of Texas, I am going to wear tank tops and shorts!<BR/><BR/>I think it is our reposibility to dress appropriately and act appropriately. If men have a problem with women wearing tank tops, perhaps they should move to North Dakota?elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00306761275018237902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13259631.post-1118174048328569352005-06-07T14:54:00.000-05:002005-06-07T14:54:00.000-05:00Hey what about how men dress? Studly construction ...Hey what about how men dress? Studly construction workers with no shirts tempt women and gay men so there is a double whammy! Better get a Chador for them too! <BR/><BR/>Seriously, I am with UF, once we start requiring clothing to "protect" people, there is no end to it and we will be all covered in bedsheets. When well we get to make up? Can't have that now can we? A tempting eyeshadow can cause someone to fall!<BR/><BR/>I once heard a Protestant Preacher say one time, "A little paint never hurt an old Barn, daub it on honey!"<BR/><BR/>Can't we be like Tony said, and be responsible for our own sin/lurid stares?Monk-in-Traininghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01587433183262341491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13259631.post-1118151655231473842005-06-07T08:40:00.000-05:002005-06-07T08:40:00.000-05:00I feel each person bears total responsibility for ...I feel each person bears total responsibility for their own actions and thoughts. Men must take complete responsibility for all thoughts and actions, regardless of the temptations before us. There are no excuses.<BR/><BR/>Likewise, women must take responsibility for the way they dress. They should ask themselves, "is what I am wearing, my body language, my behavior glorifying God? What is my motivation for what I just put on, how I carry myself, how I present myself."<BR/><BR/>I feel strongly that although others may be wrong or not completely sound in an action or behavior, I cannot control them, but I can control myself. It is my responsibility to control myself.<BR/>(it is debatable if I really can control myself, but for the sake of discussion I will stick with that term)<BR/><BR/>Tony<BR/><A HREF="http://www.tonyarnold.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">Tony's Blog</A>Tony Arnoldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05497055762329338990noreply@blogger.com